Flying, whether for work or leisure, is an essential part of modern life. However, like any form of public transport, your behavior on a flight can significantly impact your own experience and the comfort of those around you. Nobody wants to be labeled ‘that person’ causing a scene or making fellow passengers feel uncomfortable. So, let’s dive into the seven flight etiquette rules experts advise you never to break:
1. Reclining Your Seat: Be Mindful of Timing
Reclining your seat is perfectly acceptable; we all crave comfort on a long flight. But, remember, timing is everything! Avoid lurching backwards just as someone is enjoying their meal or has items on their table. Consider the impact on those behind you. Etiquette coach Mariah Grumet suggests being mindful of the timing, even if you’ve paid for that extra space. If you really need extra legroom, explore alternatives like a foot hammock that fits most tray tables, allowing you to stretch without bothering others.
2. Keep Your Socks On: Respect Personal Space
We all want to be comfortable on a flight, but removing your shoes and socks might not be the best way to achieve that. The sight and smell of bare feet can make others feel uncomfortable, especially on long flights. Even if your feet are clean, consider the unsanitary conditions of aircraft carpets. Instead, Travel and Leisure recommends bringing a lightweight pair of shoes or wearing compression socks, which aid blood circulation while keeping others from feeling grossed out.
3. Avoid Unpleasant Odors: Consider Your Fellow Passengers
While keeping your feet tucked away is essential, remember that other actions can create unwanted odors. Spraying perfume, applying nail polish, or indulging in strong-smelling personal grooming can be offensive to those around you. Sarah James, Deputy Digital Editor of Conde Nast Traveller, highlights that enclosed spaces are particularly sensitive. Someone might have allergies, asthma, or even feel nauseous due to strong scents. Instead of spraying around the cabin, try a travel-sized roll-on perfume or spritz a scarf or travel pillow before you board. And remember, that tuna sandwich in your hand luggage might be best left at home, as even the smell of fish can be bothersome.
4. Be Kind to Parents and Children: Empathy Goes a Long Way
Yes, a crying baby can be frustrating, but remember, their parents are likely already stressed and embarrassed. Avoid making a spectacle of it, as this will only add to their discomfort. Instead, be empathetic. Understand that children often cry due to hunger, fatigue, or discomfort. Conversely, if you’re the parent of older children, Simple Flying advises against letting them run around the cabin unchecked. This can be disruptive to other passengers and potentially lead to injury.
5. Don’t Nod Off on Someone’s Shoulder: Respect Boundaries
Catching a few winks on a plane is understandable, especially on long flights. However, falling asleep on the shoulder of a stranger is inappropriate, even rude. It can be intimidating and restricts their movements. Even if you know the person, consider their need to eat, use the restroom, or even get some sleep themselves. Instead of leaning on a stranger, invest in a neck pillow for support, ensuring a comfortable sleep without encroaching on someone else’s space.
6. Avoid Excessive Pre-Flight Drinking: Be Responsible
It’s tempting to grab a drink at the airport lounge before boarding, especially if you’re on vacation or dealing with flight anxiety. However, while a quick drink might be fine, getting drunk before boarding is unacceptable. Alcohol can intensify during takeoff, especially if the flight is bumpy, leading to discomfort and potential illness throughout the journey. Remember, excessive drinking can also lead to unruly behavior, as highlighted by Simple Flying. Even though the International Air Transport Association stated in 2022 that most unruly passengers hadn’t been drinking, it remains a risk. So, if you do choose to have a pre-flight drink, do so responsibly and in moderation. Stay hydrated and consider waiting until you reach your destination to indulge.
7. Don’t Rush to Get Off: Be Patient and Considerate
The excitement of arriving at your destination is understandable, but rushing to be the first off the plane is disrespectful. Let those in the front disembark first. Everyone will eventually get their chance. While you might be anxious to get off, consider that others may have connecting flights, limited mobility, or need extra time to gather their belongings. Mariah Grumet suggests letting a cabin crew member know if you have a connecting flight. They can assist you in exiting quickly, but always remember to do so with consideration for others.
