Em Clarkson, Metro’s agony aunt, is back with another round of insightful advice for readers navigating life’s challenges. This week, she tackles two particularly common conundrums: how to approach a friend who might be developing a problem with alcohol, and how to deal with parents who disapprove of your chosen career path.
A Friend’s Struggles with Alcohol
One reader expresses concern about a friend who overindulges whenever they go out, leading to problematic behavior. Em acknowledges the difficult situation and reminds the reader that while it’s challenging to confront a friend about their drinking, it’s crucial to approach the conversation with love and support. She emphasizes that forcing someone to seek help is ineffective, but expressing your worry and offering your presence can make a difference. Em suggests exploring resources like Al-Anon, which provides support for loved ones of addicts. She encourages open communication, suggesting a heads-up text beforehand to avoid making the friend feel blindsided.
Dealing with Disapproving Parents
Another reader confides in Em about their parents’ constant pressure to pursue a ‘higher’ career path. The reader enjoys their current job, despite its low status and pay, but feels burdened by their parents’ expectations. Em offers reassurance, emphasizing that personal happiness and fulfillment are paramount. She advises the reader to address their parents’ concerns directly, expressing gratitude for their support but firmly stating that they are content with their chosen path. Em suggests a heartfelt conversation or a letter detailing their gratitude for their parents’ support while asserting their right to pursue a career that brings them joy.
Em Clarkson’s column provides valuable insights into navigating complex personal issues. Her compassionate and understanding approach empowers readers to address difficult situations with confidence and grace.
Want to Ask Em Clarkson a Question?
Em welcomes questions from readers on a wide range of topics, from relationship struggles to career anxieties. To submit your question, email askem@metro.co.uk.
