Kristen Fischer, an American who made the bold decision to permanently relocate to New Delhi in 2022, recently took to Instagram to share her perspective on why she chose to leave the USA for India. Addressing a question she frequently encounters – “Why would you move from America to India?” – Fischer boldly challenges the common assumption that India is somehow a “lesser place to live” and that she is “worse off” for making the move.
Fischer believes these questions often stem from a misconception that living in India is a downgrade and that leaving the USA is an irrational decision. However, she strongly disagrees with both notions. In her view, India offers something unique, particularly for her children, who she believes are poised for a more successful future in this vibrant nation. She emphasizes that the life, experiences, and sense of community her children will gain in India are things they would never have had in the USA.
Reflecting on conversations with Indians living abroad, Fischer notes a recurring theme: many people realize how much they miss India after leaving. They often assume life will be better elsewhere, only to discover the true value of what they left behind. Fischer also highlights a crucial point: life is about more than just financial wealth. While the USA may offer greater financial opportunities, she believes that India offers a richer life in terms of community, relationships, experiences, and overall happiness. These aspects of life matter most to her, and they make India a place of true wealth.
“I think my kids are being set up for a more successful life and future in India. They will have such a rich life, experiences, and community that they would never have gotten in the USA,” Fischer asserts.
Fischer’s perspective on India has sparked a lively debate on social media. While some Indians express agreement with her view, others disagree. One user wrote, “You live the life 99.99% Indians don’t. So your opinion is not a representative of a major population of India where they struggle to make ends meet to just get basic food!!” Another Indian user shared their own perspective, writing, “As an introvert, America is a perfect place for me.” An American user commented, “Lovely people but they suffer the same social ills as any other place.”
However, there are also those who wholeheartedly agree with Fischer’s viewpoint. One user wrote, “India is a place where the warmth of its people makes it feel homely, whether you’re a local or a foreigner.” Another user expressed a similar sentiment, writing, “I agree with you, living in the US since 10 years, still never felt like home here. Home will be always India.” And another user shared a personal experience, stating, “When I was in India my life was way better in terms of mind and Health. You never feel alone.”
Fischer’s story and the ensuing debate highlight the complex and often subjective nature of happiness and success. While some may prioritize financial wealth, others may find fulfillment in a rich and vibrant community, strong relationships, and a sense of belonging. Ultimately, the decision of where to call home is a deeply personal one, shaped by individual values and priorities.
