Growing up, I endured unimaginable abuse at the hands of my mother, Rose. Her words and actions left deep scars on my young mind, making me feel worthless and unloved. At six, my hidden injuries were finally exposed at school, leading to my mother’s arrest and my placement in care.
The initial transition was traumatic, with the prison-like atmosphere and constant longing for my mother. Despite the guilt and confusion, I knew her actions were wrong. As the years passed, I sought solace in education, finding solace in the world of books.
At 13, my fascination with psychology ignited a deeper understanding of my mother’s behavior. I realized that her abuse stemmed from her own childhood trauma. This newfound perspective sparked a journey of forgiveness, although she continued to verbally torment me even after her release from prison.
Determined to break the cycle of abuse, I dedicated myself to helping others like me. I shared my experiences, advocating for changes in the care system and becoming a foster mother myself. Through therapy, I pieced my heart back together, finding love and purpose in caring for a young girl.
In March 2019, I visited my mother on Mother’s Day, only to find she had passed away. While I grieved her loss, I also felt a sense of relief from the constant pain she had inflicted. Reflecting on my childhood, I wished things had been different but found solace in the resilience I had developed.
Today, I am a proud advocate for ending child verbal abuse and supporting children in care. I share my story, provide expert insights, and campaign for a better system that prioritizes the well-being of our most vulnerable.
My journey is a testament to the indomitable human spirit. Despite the horrors I endured, I refused to be defined by them. Instead, I chose resilience, forgiveness, and a life dedicated to making a positive impact. I am proof that even from the darkest depths, hope and healing can emerge.
