In a refreshing shift, an increasing number of women are stepping out of their comfort zones and embracing the joy of attending gigs solo. Once held back by safety concerns and the fear of social judgment, women like Nat Arney, Sam Espensen, and Lake Faith have discovered the empowerment and liberation that come with independent gig attendance.
Nat Arney, a 41-year-old resident of Worthing, embarked on her solo gigging journey in 2015, driven by her passion for live music. Despite initial nervousness, she quickly realized that she was not alone in her pursuit, finding solace in the presence of other solo attendees. Recognizing the safety concerns that women often face, she emphasizes the importance of having a plan and informing someone of your whereabouts.
For Sam Espensen, a 50-year-old Bristol resident, attending gigs solo is a deliberate choice that stems from her neurodivergence. She finds comfort in the freedom to arrive early, scope out the venue, and leave before the crowds disperse. The absence of social pressure allows her to fully immerse herself in the music and atmosphere.
Lake Faith, a 29-year-old genderfluid individual residing in London, has found a sense of community by attending gigs solo. They have formed connections with other queer and alt-metal fans, sharing a love for The Wonder Years. Faith describes their solo gigging experiences as a form of self-care, a time for indulging in their passion without judgment or distraction.
While progress has been made, statistics reveal that women continue to face gendered barriers in the realm of solo gigging. A recent study by Viagogo found that nearly 73% of women have never attended a concert alone, with safety concerns and a lack of confidence cited as primary reasons. The study also highlighted a gender divide, with half of men reporting solo gig attendance compared to just over a quarter of women.
These statistics underscore the need for continued efforts to create a safe and welcoming environment for women at gigs. Initiatives like Taylor Swift’s Swifties sharing safety tips and friendship bracelets foster a sense of community and support. Additionally, Facebook groups dedicated to solo festivalgoers provide a platform for attendees to connect before the event.
The message is clear: everyone – regardless of gender, sexuality, race, or any other factor – should feel confident, safe, and happy attending gigs alone. Whether you’re seeking musical connection, self-discovery, or simply the joy of live music, solo gigging offers a unique and empowering experience.
