Amidst escalating tensions between Israel and Iran, I embarked on an unexpected journey to Europe for a brit milah. What began as a seemingly routine travel arrangement soon took on a different meaning as the region teetered on the brink of a broader conflict.
Upon arriving at my destination, I was struck by the beauty and history of the town’s ancient synagogue. It provided a sacred backdrop for the brit milah, a profound moment in the life of a Jewish child. However, the celebratory occasion was tinged with a sense of exclusion as the local rabbinic establishment refused to allow the ceremony to take place within the synagogue’s hallowed halls.
This exclusion extended beyond the synagogue, relegating the family to hold the simcha in a social hall above a bowling alley. The stark contrast between the rich Jewish heritage of Europe and the perceived banishment of this family left a lingering unease.
Despite the obstacles, the brit milah itself was a testament to the enduring traditions and resilience of the Jewish community. The unique local customs and the presence of the child’s father, who had grown up in the town, added a deeply personal and meaningful dimension to the ceremony.
However, the reality of the rejection faced by this family raised concerns about the future of Jewish life in Europe. Questions lingered about their son’s access to Jewish education and the potential difficulties he might encounter as a halachically Jewish individual within a community that may not fully accept him.
Returning home, the weight of these experiences intensified as Israel launched retaliatory strikes against Iran. The sense of relief at having escaped potential danger was tempered by the realization that the divisions within the Jewish world extended far beyond the Middle East.
The experience served as a stark reminder of the challenges and complexities of Jewish identity in Europe, particularly during times of geopolitical turmoil. It highlighted the need for greater inclusivity, compassion, and a united front within the global Jewish community. In the face of adversity, the shared experiences of prayer and spirituality amidst strangers offered a glimmer of hope that one day, we may find a way to bridge the gaps and pray together as one.
