A new survey has delved into the nation’s feelings about pet owner habits, revealing that many of us aren’t comfortable with certain behaviors around furry friends. We’ve all experienced that awkward feeling, often with a romantic partner, where something just rubs us the wrong way. This survey, conducted by Shark, explored the boundaries of ‘petiquette’ and discovered a surprising consensus in the UK about what constitutes ‘too much’ when it comes to pets.
Almost two-thirds (64%) of respondents admitted feeling uncomfortable with a partner or friend letting their pet eat from their cutlery. Interestingly, only 8% said there was nothing their furry companions could do that would bother them, with millennials (aged 25-34) being the most likely to shrug off behaviors like bathing with pets, dressing them up, or kissing them on the mouth.
Shark’s survey identified the top 10 most cringe-worthy pet owner habits, prompting etiquette expert John-Paul Stuthridge to offer guidance. He highlighted allowing your pet to lick your face as a common, yet potentially problematic behavior. Ranking seventh-worst in the survey, John-Paul explains that “As a dog owner, always assume the other person isn’t a pet person and let them warm up to the dog rather than allowing the dog to put its sloppy chops all over someone else.” He also emphasizes the importance of cleaning up after your pet, stating it “goes without saying.”
John-Paul further advises against “shoving your pets in someone’s face” and encourages owners to treat PDA with pets similar to human relationships, saving “overt pet love for the home.” He suggests that a quick pat on the head or a brief “smush” is sufficient.
If you find yourself experiencing the ‘ick’ with your partner’s pet habits, John-Paul stresses that communication is key. While it may not be an easy conversation, he recommends being direct, short, honest, and polite, emphasizing empathy and understanding.
Ultimately, this survey sheds light on the fine line between loving your pet and pushing boundaries with those around you. By understanding the ‘ick’ factor and practicing good ‘petiquette,’ we can foster a more harmonious and enjoyable experience for all, whether you’re a pet owner or not.
