A 45-year-old woman seeks advice on how to handle her 21-year-old son, who has been unemployed for four months and lives with her and her wife. The son has a history of dropping out of school and not following through on commitments, despite being academically intelligent. The situation is putting a strain on the woman’s marriage, as her wife wants their son to move out. The woman feels torn between her loyalty to her son and her relationship with her wife.