Comedian Rachel Coster has gained popularity on social media by exposing the reality of the “boy room” – bedrooms of grown men that resemble those of teenagers. Coster’s TikTok videos showcase the appalling living conditions of New York City’s adult bachelors, from suitcases serving as nightstands to food remnants gathering mold. This phenomenon, dubbed the “lost boy” spectrum, isn’t isolated but representative of numerous bachelor pads. There are two main types of “boy rooms”: the chaotic mess, resembling a tornado’s aftermath, and the sterile emptiness, devoid of any personality. While the author acknowledges her own domestic shortcomings, she emphasizes the importance of making an effort in one’s living space, including tidying up, investing in bedding, and perhaps considering purchasing a bed for adult guests. Failure to do so may result in polite smiles and swift exits from potential partners.