Embarking on a journey of self-discovery, the writer uncovers the hidden reasons behind her past sexual dissatisfaction. With the guidance of intimacy coach Aili Seghetti, she embarks on a pleasure mapping session, exploring her body’s erotic zones through various stimuli. The experience sheds light on the importance of understanding one’s own preferences and needs, challenging societal norms that often prioritize the pleasure of one partner over the other. Through this intimate and empowering process, the writer gains a deeper understanding of her body and her own desires, empowering her to assert her needs and find true sexual fulfillment.