Despite societal stigma, 72-year-old Lis McDermott and her husband, Conrad, who is 12 years younger, have been happily married for over 3 decades. Their relationship has faced criticism due to the age gap, but they remain unfazed, finding solace in their shared interests, laughter, and unwavering support for each other. Lis challenges the societal norm that the man should always be older in a relationship, emphasizing that age is irrelevant when it comes to love and companionship.
In 2021, after a divorce and a move back to New York City, the author was eager to explore their newfound singlehood. They downloaded Hinge and swiped right on the profile of Elise, a redhead with a sophisticated and beautiful demeanor. Despite their different lifestyles and social media presence, a deep connection and mutual respect grew between them, leading to an engagement two months into dating. Elise, grounded and self-respecting, did not aspire to a traditional wedding, and the author happily agreed to keep their relationship private for the time being. When the day came, they eloped in Malibu, exchanging vows in casual dresses and Foundrae wedding bands. The moment was captured on disposable cameras and iPhones. Upon returning to Brooklyn, they felt the urge to commemorate their marriage more formally and commissioned a close friend to take family portraits in a cozy and intimate setting. Months later, they decided to share their love story and photos with the world, celebrating their trans and queer relationship and the importance of visibility.
Do Aur Do Pyaar, starring Vidya Balan and Pratik Gandhi, presents a nuanced exploration of infidelity. It challenges traditional views of love and marriage, questioning whether they always go hand in hand. Through its non-judgemental lens, the film normalizes infidelity, recognizing it as a complex issue that cannot be boiled down to right or wrong.
