Advice: How to Cope with Boyfriend Sharing Intimate Details of Your Sex Life, Friendships That Turn Frosty, and Feeling Like Roommates in a Long-Term Relationship

Our expert, Em Clarkson, tackles reader conundrums about a boyfriend oversharing intimate details with his colleagues, friends who have become distant, and a fiance who prioritizes hobbies over spending time with his partner.

**Problem 1: Oversharing Boyfriend**
The reader’s boyfriend shares intimate details of their sex life with his colleagues without her consent, making her uncomfortable. Em advises communicating her boundaries clearly, emphasizing that her comfort is non-negotiable. If he cannot respect that, it may indicate a lack of respect for her.

**Problem 2: Frosty Friendships**
One of the reader’s close friends has suddenly become distant and unresponsive. Em suggests not catastrophizing the situation, as it could be due to personal issues the friend is facing. She recommends reaching out and offering support but accepting that the friend may need space.

**Problem 3: Feeling Like Roommates in a Relationship**
The reader feels like she and her fiance have drifted apart due to his busy schedule and lack of desire to spend quality time together. Em suggests examining if he is truly prioritizing her needs. If he is not willing to make an effort to balance his hobbies and their relationship, it may be time to reassess their compatibility.

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