Tom Daley, the 30-year-old British diving legend who has remarkably competed in five Olympic Games, has officially announced his retirement. The news comes after a stellar performance in Paris, where he and diving partner Noah Williams secured a silver medal in the men’s 10-meter synchronized platform. This medal, Daley’s fifth after bronzes in London and Rio de Janeiro, plus a gold and a bronze in Tokyo, marks a significant milestone in his career.
Daley, who spoke with me at Soho House Paris, reflects on his journey: “It feels very, very surreal,” he says. “I felt so incredibly nervous going into this, knowing it was my last Olympics. There was a lot of pressure and expectation. I was eager for it to be done… but when I walked out, and saw my husband [Lance] and kids [Robbie and Phoenix] and my friends and family in the audience, I was like, you know what? This is exactly why I did this. I’m here, and no matter what happens in the competition itself, I’m going to be happy.”
Daley’s passion for diving started at a young age, qualifying for his first Olympics at just 14 years old in Beijing 2008. Sadly, his father, Robert Daley, a strong supporter of his career, passed away from brain cancer three years later. Since then, his mother, Debbie, has been a constant presence at his events. Daley’s journey also includes coming out as gay in 2013 through a YouTube video, a decision he made after a tabloid published a false headline claiming he was not gay. “It infuriated me that somebody would say that. I never wanted to be seen as lying or hiding from who I was,” Daley says. He acknowledges the increased visibility of LGBTQ+ athletes in recent years and the pressure that comes with representation. “I think there is a lot of pressure for when people do come out to be an activist and to be outspoken. And sometimes that’s just not in some people’s nature,” he reflects.
Daley’s presence extends beyond the diving platform. He has a large online following and has embraced social media, showcasing his knitting skills which have garnered significant attention. He launched Made With Love, a knit-focused clothing and accessory line, and has expressed interest in pursuing fashion further. Daley is also interested in expanding his media presence, possibly venturing into presenting and exploring new creative projects.
He recognizes the challenges ahead as he transitions into a new phase of life. “I’ve spent my whole life doing this,” Daley says, looking at his silver medal. “Actually being able to let go of it – it’s going to be hard. And it’s going to be a major adjustment to figure out how my days are structured.” Despite the changes, he remains optimistic and determined to embrace new opportunities.
Daley’s legacy as a diver is one of resilience and perseverance. He says he wants to be remembered as someone who “persisted and didn’t give up on his dream until he was able to achieve it.” He takes pride in being Britain’s most decorated diver, a testament to his dedication and commitment. Daley’s retirement marks the end of an era, but his journey as an athlete, advocate, and creative individual continues.
