Em Clarkson, Metro’s resident agony aunt, is here to offer wisdom and guidance on three pressing relationship issues:
Navigating a Partner’s Close Female Friend:
A reader expresses anxiety about her boyfriend’s close female friend, particularly after she recently went through a breakup. Em emphasizes the importance of recognizing the long-standing nature of their friendship and suggests giving both parties the benefit of the doubt. She encourages the reader to engage in the relationship fully, while being open to discussing any concerns that may arise in the future.
Dealing with Unsolicited Comments on a Baby’s Appearance:
A reader seeks advice on how to handle well-meaning but intrusive comments on her baby’s appearance. Em strongly advocates for creating a positive and body-inclusive environment for the baby. She suggests setting boundaries with those who make such comments, while also working to instill strong self-belief and confidence in the child.
Rebuilding Lost Friendships Due to Depression:
A reader who has lost contact with friends due to depression seeks to reconnect. Em encourages the reader to reach out with letters of apology and explanation. She highlights the importance of self-forgiveness and emphasizes that true friends will understand and support the situation. Em encourages the reader to approach the process with kindness towards herself and others.
Throughout the column, Em Clarkson provides practical advice and emotional support, empowering readers to navigate complex relationships with clarity and resilience.
