Love stories often defy conventional norms, and Brooke McNelis and Patrick Daly are living proof. The couple – based in Encinitas, California – have had their fair share of nasty comments over their 22-year age gap, but their relationship stands as a testament to the resilience of genuine connection.
Brooke, 33, who works in medical sales, rejects the assumption made by trolls that she’s only with fiancé Patrick, 54, for his money, claiming that guys her own age are ‘too insecure.’ Introduced by Chief Financial Officer Patrick’s step-niece (Brooke’s close friend from college), the pair’s love story began unexpectedly, blossoming into something far deeper over time.
While Brooke’s family was taken aback by the significant age difference, they soon embraced Patrick, recognizing the authenticity of their bond. ‘Funnily enough, my mum always said I needed an older man,’ says Brooke. ‘When I brought Pat home she said “I didn’t mean the same age as me!”.’ Brooke revealed she’d previously tried dating men her own age, but that they ‘were always very insecure.’ ‘I needed an older man that let me be my complete self,’ she adds, which is what she has found that in Patrick.
The couple have faced criticism throughout their relationship from online trolls, who have labelled Brooke a ‘gold-digger’ based on their age difference. However, she remains undeterred, asserting: ‘I have a full-blown career and know the truth, so the outside noise doesn’t bother me.’ Some on TikTok have cruelly suggested she is ‘engaged to her dad,’ which they addressed together in a video response where Patrick joked: ‘What’s wrong with being engaged to your dad?’ Judgements on the street are a common occurrence for the pair too. ‘We get a lot of looks or comments while out to dinner, but I laugh them off,’ Brooke shares. ‘One woman came up to Pat and me, and asked how he holds a conversation with someone so young.’
Yet despite initially being ‘sceptical’, both Brooke and Patrick’s loved ones are supportive of their relationship, which is what matters most to them. Brooke has also formed a ‘great relationship’ with Patrick’s adult daughter, but admits that the only obstacle in their love story is that they may not have children together. ‘Kids are a maybe as he already has a daughter who is 18,’ she adds.
Despite the challenges they have faced due to their age difference, Brooke and Patrick’s love story is a reminder that true connections can overcome societal expectations and stereotypes. Their resilience and unwavering commitment to their relationship is an inspiration to others who may have faced similar obstacles in their own love lives.
